My Journey to Doula







My passion for birth work started many years ago, even if I didn’t
recognize it at first.
I was adopted as a young child by my grandparents. My mom (grandma)
was an incredibly kind woman with a huge heart for serving others. She
spent much of her time volunteering at church—making meals for clergy
and new moms, cleaning, and always showing up for those in need. She
also worked in healthcare as both an CNA and a RN, which helped shape
my early interest in the medical field. Looking back, I can see that my compassionate side was deeply rooted in her example. (May she rest in
peace.)
Although the desire to be a mother was planted as early as 13, and I was
reading every labor and delivery book possible, I had no idea my stage was
being set for my future as a Doula.
Come senior year, I was job shadowing and prepping to study for
Ultrasound Tech, with full intention to enter the medical field.
That same year, I witnessed my first hospital birth—it was absolutely
fascinating. All of those things and more, yet I still didn’t see the path
clearly.
Fast forward to my 20's, after struggling to conceive, I threw myself head
first into my culinary career. The kitchen became my world, and even
though I tried to walk away a few times, I always returned—drawn in by the
energy and familiarity.
In 2020 everything shifted after finding out I was pregnant and I knew in
my heart that the kitchen was no longer where I belonged. Motherhood
had always been at the center of my heart, and now I was ready to fully
embrace it. Like many others, both my husband and I lost our jobs that
year—an unexpected but necessary push to finally step away from the
chef coat.
That April, my greatest blessing arrived- my own baby, and that
experience changed everything in me. It was the most empowering
transformative moment of my life.
At last came April 2024—the second that sealed it all. An expectant
mom/friend, was sent home too early from her birthing center, and called
me in a panic.
I rushed to her house and arrived to find her in active labor. Not long after
that, I was catching her baby in my arms, right there in her bathroom.
It was in that moment I knew. This was my calling, and from there,
everything aligned.
That October, I received my doula certification, married my best friend, relaunched my cake business, and was re-baptized. After coming back to
Faith that year, I knew God had done His work with great intention and
divinely orchestrated, and now it was my turn to participate.
Today, I feel honored to walk alongside other moms in their own birth
stories. I am here to advocate for your vision, respect and hold your space,
and offer unwavering love and support as you bring life into this world.
If you allow me to join you on your journey, I promise to honor your
beliefs, unite with you in moments of uncertainty, and dedicate and serve
you with my whole heart.
Being a Doula is not your regular job, it’s a Ministry, it is a sacred thing
to be invited into your story, and will forever hold a place in my heart.